My guy calls me every now and then and I call him any time to feel just that it was just me. Imagine how may times?
For both of us manage our time and how often will we agree to go online. In this way we keep our communication and relationship smoothly. If there were very important to talk about any news that will come along with our daily routine, we will just write them down and e-mail sent through. I suggested we get another call at least once a week and we will be going online, twice a week.
I'm learning here for me so far with LDL has a lot of patience and understanding. Without these two things, I think it would be much easier to handle it.
Here's why I said it. Once he sent me an offline message that he would like 12 home after midnight, he had a business dinner to attend. He said his best time to come online. It may be 5:00 my time anyway so I would not mind waiting.
But like I waited two hours, and did not show it. I was sad of course and a little upset, he should at least send me sms or call me a brief that he could not be online. I have negative things, any thing you can think of a lot of thought ... I'm sure you must feel the same way. But I told myself to be patient and just wait for her story.
My situation is difficult because we are so close together. We are writing not only to each other, but we also call each other. Also we have the urge to start looking at each other in person. But as we planned to do so, I can not help worry about it. I'm feeling, what I felt with him like a spark Now I will read your mail will not feel or hear him? Then I felt it, just drop the idea of meeting him in person. With a close friend I was afraid it might end up like what happened. Their LDL did not end well.
I might also add that we should trust. Trusting another person to maintain a healthy relationship is a component of LDL. But the question is, how can you when you two have not seen each other in person?
In my case with my LDL, I trusted my intuition. I my LDL, mentally or spiritually wise and be wise, believe me, because I chose this type of affair online.
I have a better chance with me, consider LDL. I can be positive and all negative thoughts and feelings that I want to associate with it the need to eliminate. I believe that the fun I will deal with my long distance love affair.
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